B-I-N-G-O, And Bingo Was His Name-0.
I have 5 kids. The first 3 are naturally born to my wife and me and the last two, are a set of twin girls that we adopted last year. They are now, 14 months old.
When you adopt there are always these idiosyncrasies that are unique to your new kids… “qualities” (if I can say it in a nice way) which didn’t show up in the other kids. These twins? They have always hated to get their diapers changed – they cry, they flip over, they cry more - get my point?
The only thing I have ever found that works to distract them is to break into a rousing rendition of B-I-N-G-O. You know how it goes – with every verse, you drop one of the letters until the last verse only says, “…and Bingo was his name-o.” We’ve used the song for when they are hungry and we don’t have a cracker to suffice. We’ve used the song when they bump their head and need a little distraction. Sometimes, the entire family is singing that silly song just to get those cute little screamers quiet. But now, with them getting older, the song just doesn’t work like it once did. That’s right. BINGO’s days are numbered.
We all have things that we use as distractions – Some of us eat too much. Some of us drink too much. AND, some of us choose to do business the same way we’ve always done it. We sing the same song but no one is listening.
So, here’s my latest life lesson: I’ve got to be careful that my professional habits have not become my professional distractions. My clients may not be eating what I’m feeding them. If I’ve sent them postcards maybe they’re throwing out all their junk mail. If I’ve been sending emails, maybe they’re ending up in their spam folder. If I’ve been trying to connect on Facebook, Linked-In or Twitter, maybe they only use their cell phone to connect with the world.
BUT, our constant chasing after the hottest technology to reach our clients can be the biggest distraction of all. Because, one thing is sure – Whoever has the better relationship with my client at the particular time they are making a decision to buy or sell a house, …WINS. If a neighbor of their’s is a Realtor and maybe doesn’t even have a “web presence” but yet takes the time to walk down the street to introduce herself to my past client and establishes that relationship over time - well, her handshake is the only technology she needs when it comes time for my past clients to sell their home.
In the end, after I’ve tweeted and twittered my thumbs away, who loses? BINGO! Me.







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Nick spoke at our recent Keller Williams Mega Camp in Austin, TX. His story is inspiring. Check him out.